Jono said:
You've totally missed my point. Ignore the fact that SJS was referring to that poster. Maybe what he had to say was valid, maybe not. My point was that this whole idea that all Indian/Pakistani fans are sore losers has become more and more common on this board, from both neutral fans and even some Indian fans. Just because a few say something arrogant, stupid or whatever (wahindiawah and whomever seemed to say a lot prior to the Pakistani series) doesn't mean that all fans need to fall under this stereotype. There seems to be an elitist attitude arising against both Indian and Pakistani fans, simply because a few seem to overreact to losses, or make excuses for losses. Either way these sore losers don't represent all Indian/Pakistani fans obviously.
I agree with most of what you say jono. In fact, I had immediately agreed that i need not have responded.
But I totally disagree that the attitude regarding Indian and Pakistani fans can be called elitist.
Yes it is a generalisation which does not fit all of us, but it fits a very large number, those on this forum and those who have never been here but we are all familiar with.
Thus for those of us who do not wish to be bracketed with this "passionate" (for reasons of not wanting to start another debate I am not using a stronger word) majority/minority, it may be important to stand up EVERY time and tell our own countrymen that we disagree.
The way to remove the "stereotype" is not to keep stressing that stereotypes are not fair to all but to show by example that this is so. This is what i do sometimes. Not to be elitist or show an elitist attitude. But to tell my fellow Indians(and Pakistani) friends that they are not right and there are indians who dont think like them.
This is neither elitist, nor a holier than thou attitude (I know you are not saying it is), nor an attempt to ingratiate with the rest.
Someone recently named three or four Indians, on this forum, as being "rational"(or some such word). I dont feel on "top of the world" because my name was in that list. I do wish , however, that that list was longer. So long, in fact, that it would make no sense to have such a list and people would rather make a list of those who were "passionate".
I hope you see what I am saying.
By the way, for others who have stepped into this discussion, my response had nothing to do with the plusses and minusses of the two teams but the inability of some to take defeat, particularly from certain teams. It shows feelings other than mere passion of a committed supporter. At least thats how it looks to me.