Andre
International Regular
Frankly Tamara, I really think your taking everything far too seriously. Generally, people are mucking around. Being an international cricketer, people are going to cop praise and critcism - it comes with the territory.Tamara said:I don't know what level you play Richard or how serious you are about your cricket etc. I know that the higher you get the more critisim you will get. And usually it is harsher.
The reason I am so against making fun of people like AA and Harmision and tuffey is because I know the work that they have put in, I know how much **** they are getting. In the end we play the best we can and if that isn't good enough then is it really worth putting your name out there for a joke.
Last season I had exactly that. It got to the stage I would basicly cry myself to sleep at night because I was young, inexperienced and didn't know how to handle the position I had been thrown into. I lost the love of the game I had, and I feared walking out to bat because I felt everyone was wanting me to fail. I was almost correct. Kiwis love to drag people down. Only my team mates wanted to see success from me.
I didn't talk about it too anyone, and when I finally did, 2 months later my cricket had suffered badly. My friends though I was a snobby person who had mental issues. I failed all my exams and almost stuffed the chance of going to uni. And worst of all my health suffered so badly I lost 11 kgs in the month of Feburary alone. And for someone who wieghts only 61 kgs it is a bit of a worry.
All that started because of a few people going on about how crap I was and how I didn't deserve the chances of playing in higher grades. You may be saying well AA or Harmision are never going to read this. But are you so sure. I know of a few Black caps who have visited this site so maybe we should respect the work people put into get to where they want.
It's up to the player considering how the deal with it.