I don't think the idea that "abuse is abuse" holds water for very long; it's pretty obvious that if someone was abused for (say) having a clashing shirt and tie or an unfortunate haircut and someone else is abused for their race, ***ual orienation or moral probity of their sister then the latter examples are graver offences, so there is demonstrably a hierarchy.
That aside, I'm not advocating a western cultural hegemony, but there has to be some recognition of the "when in Rome" principle. I don't take my shoes off on the rare occasions I'm forced to go to church, but if I went to a Mosque and refused to do it I'd be behaving like a prick, yes? I personally couldn't care less about removing my shoes, but as I'm aware my hosts do I'd happily acquiesce.
If my memory serves Harbhajan's alleged offence took place during the Sydney test? I'll admit I don't recall what Symonds reportedly said to him initially, but there's no way the off-spinner would've been unaware of the host nation's sensitivity towards racial abuse, especially in light of his previous (undenied) use of the term during the Australians' preceding 2007 tour of India & Indian spectators being arrested for making monkey noises and gestures towards Symonds.
If Symonds had called Harbhajan's mother a whore or whatever then he's an arsehole too, but your argument is at best of the "two wrongs" variety.
Tbh, I suspect that even engaging with someone like you is a complete waste of time, but I'll give it one last try. You've demonstrated such a variety of dishonest and underhand behaviour on this thread - straw manning, deliberately misrepresenting what other posters have said, etc - that you put me in mind of a global warming fanatic I was debating the other day who quite seriously suggested that the academics at the Climatic Research Unit at the University of East Anglia who were systematically falsifying and deleting data which did not suport their theories about man-made global warming were justified in doing so, because their fraudulent actions were done "in a good cause".
You take racism very seriously. Good for you. But I can assure you that your noble support for the anti-racist cause does not justify the way you've been carrying on on this thread. In fact, speaking as someone who inherently sympathizes with your position, I would caution that your excesses have done your cause more harm than good.
In a previous post, you wrote:
"I think one instinctively understands racist abuse is of a different magnitude to calling someone a "See You Next Time"."
I think this goes to the heart of the matter. You see, I live in the same country as you, and yet do not do not share your instinctive understanding. Although the colour of my skin is nearer to Muamba's than it is to that of the majority of people in the UK, I don't think the guy who made those stupid comments about him should have been imprisoned. Far from it. But we live in an age in which single-issue monomaniacs who lack all sense of balance hold sway in this area, as they do in "gay, lesbian and transgender rights", "climate change" (the craftily rebranded erstwhile "global warming") and so many other darling areas beloved of liberals.
Consequently a criminal justice system which routinely allows genuine criminals to go scot-free for want of capacity in our overcrowded gaols is called upon to deal - at great expense - with idiots who have simply expressed opinions in areas formerly covered by what used to be considered an inalienable right to free speech, but in which the state has arbitrarily decided to get involved. Once upon a time we would have accepted that the Muamba-baiter's real punishment had already been served; viz. the whole world now knows just how stupid and unpleasant he is. But that is not enough for those who make a living from enforcing political correctness: he must be
seen to suffer!
To go back to the quotation from your earlier post, your claim to some universally shared instinctive understanding is clearly absurd, because you can only speak of the social context in which you write: the UK in 2012. Even your parents' generation, in say the 70s, would not have shared the same instinctive understanding. Much less those on the other side of the world, today or then. Does that not furnish a clue as to how and in what respect your reasoning processes are failing? Your touching faith in human progress and mankind's gradual moral improvement over time icontinually being disproved by events.
As for your parents - or those of their generation who did not share the new-fangled view that calling someone a "black ****" is an order of magnitude more heinous than calling him merely a "****" without the modifier -; are they monsters? Or Indians, who don't share your belief. Are they simply less evolved than you - do you expect them to develop your sensitivity to race issues with time -, or are they just wicked?
With all due respect to your rather nonsensical analogy, I will reiterate: abuse is abuse. There is, there can be no hierarchy. Once there is, then what immediately springs up like so many weeds is a fully-developed apparatus of Soviet-style nomenklatura and apparatchiks who get to decide whether three-legged pre-op transexuals trump disabled lesbian dwarves in the totem pole of offendability. These administrators would naturally be given powers to decide who gets the gaol sentence and who the lollypop in screaming fits of mutual abuse, based on the pre-determined hierarchy of privilege which naturally flows out of the line of reasoning you're advocating. I want no part in such totalitarianism. I would rather have genuine free speech, and if speech is to be regulated to curb abuse, then for the rules to be made absolutely clear and non-discriminatory, with no particular groups being awarded special privileges.
You say you're "not advocating a western cultural hegemony", but that's precisely what you're doing. Cricket is played in places that are not as "advanced" as the UK; places where the guy who abused Muamba would have been teased for his stupidity merely and the incident forgotten the next day, rather than it becoming a cause celebre and feeding frenzy for newspapers indulging the British public in one of the "periodic fits of morality" to which Macaulay drew such disdainful attention. Yet you would export your racism cant to Mumbai, Galle, Islamabad and Kingston. Why? Is it because the English invented the game? If so, when do the stewardship rights expire, if ever? Your "when in Rome" comments are equally nonsensical: are you really positing different standards based on
where a Test match is played? Once we start thinking in unnatural ways it always has absurd and ludicrous results which by themselves should alert self-aware persons to the fact that their mental compass has led them astray. Clearly you lack the self-reflexive capacity, and are quite incapable of perceiving the absurdity of your position.
Australians began the whole sledging rubbish; to be honest it is to be expected that there would persist even to this day a slightly uncouth edge to the mass of people hailing from an excrescence which was transplanted from and forced to flourish a whole world away from the cultural roots from which it should have been drawing daily nourishment. Hence I do not blame Australians for the distasteful 'ocker' ethos which they used to undermine the spirit of the game from the 70s onwards with this culture of senseless abuse. Like everything else, it soon became a race to the bottom, and the 'pioneers' (yes, Australians have pioneered something!) soon found like most bullies that they were rather better at dishing it out than accepting a taste of their own medicine.
What I do object to is the fleet hypocrisy with which the same loutish crew who thought nothing of making the most sensationally ill-mannered and base sallies to their opponents as a matter of course would turn on the Indians using the numen "racism" as a modern-day crusaders' banner. What we must not now do is to run interference for them by pretending that Harbhajan, who I'm in no doubt
did call Symonds a "monkey", is somehow ontologically worse than the benighted Aussies who blazed the trail of abuse for having done so.