straw man
Hall of Fame Member
Agree it's difficult to know what to think, though there's obviously that repelling and sordid feel to the whole thing. One part of me would like to just say he's been found not guilty, is good at cricket and we should move on. That would be convenient. My brain however tells me that as Binkley said, 'not guilty' isn't the same as innocent, and that supporting Kuggeleijn in cricket requires suspending empathy for the female involved. For me, it's hard to imagine why she would lie about the situation - there's no gain for her there, while his motivations are more obvious. Some misunderstandings at the time so that they have different recollections of events, yes, but that still paints Kuggeleijn in a bad light.I'm genuinely not sure what I think. The guy was found not guilty in court and here we are judging him via a few anecdotes in the press. It doesn't sit 100% right with me either, mind, but I am not sure if that doubt is warranted or not.
There's a big discrepency between a rape conviction and years in jail, and no conviction and scot-free. Given the full facts are un-knowable I feel like a fairer outcome might have been a half-way point - some admission of wrongdoing and something like community service. However that's not possible with our justice system in this particular case. If that had happened then it might be possible to accept that Kuggeleijn is, if not quite an all-round 'nice guy' as Howsie said, at least just a person who's done something wrong, maybe still has some underlying goodness, has shown remorse, has provided a genuine apology, has matured and has paid penance. Then you could move on. As it stands however, it's hard to feel like this is resolved.