Then perhaps I grew up in different times as well given I was born in the early 70s. So yes part of this could be different generational attitudes towards representing your country and national pride. The guys in charge of the WICB will be my age or older. Remember I did say these words in my post " I can't relate to a new generation of cricketers who don't share a value system that it is important to serve something bigger than yourself and contribute to your community."You talk as if a captain punching someone is admirable behaviour.
Those guys grew up in a different time and have different value systems than us. We hear all the time about guys like Colin Meads and Buck Shelford but if they were around today they'd be common thugs.
Honestly, I have a hard time being at all nationalistic. That doesn't mean I don't love my country - just that I love people more than I love borders.
There are a lot of things more important than representing your country in sports.
Going to the cynical extreme, your country is just an arbitrary set of fences which you happened to be born within. Why should you feel pride in that?Then perhaps I grew up in different times as well given I was born in the early 70s. So yes part of this could be different generational attitudes towards representing your country and national pride. The guys in charge of the WICB will be my age or older. Remember I did say these words in my post " I can't relate to a new generation of cricketers who don't share a value system that it is important to serve something bigger than yourself and contribute to your community."
I would feel little loyalty to Oceania which combines Fiji Samoa, PNG etc. And even less to the Southern Hemisphere which is half the world geographically.Would you feel as much pride or loyalty representing Oceania or the Southern Hemisphere in a sporting contest if New Zealand couldn't alone compete internationally?
dulce et decorum estGoing to the cynical extreme, your country is just an arbitrary set of fences which you happened to be born within. Why should you feel pride in that?
Love is very different to pride, you're arguing something different with that choice of words imo.dulce et decorum est
Why should one love one's parents or family? Answer me that and I'll answer you why you should love your country.
On that basis you should owe unconditional love to your country too.I love my family because they're those who've directly cared for me before I could care for myself. I owe my unconditional love to them.
I'm not going to spend half an hour writing a post listing out the ways I love my family.On that basis you should owe unconditional love to your country too.
The new zealand govt spent - $13.9Billion on health in 2012/2013 and $13.4Billion on education. Lets just say there are 4 million of us - that is $7,000 per annum per year on each of us. By the time you were twenty the new Zealand government spent $140,000 on you (using these very rough averages). And that is before we consider the cost of other services such as the welfare state in case your parents went on the benefit.
This money was spent on you, using your words, before you could care for yourself financially.
But all of this is so shallow. You don't love your family because they cared for you before you could care for yourself...that is not the reason at all. Or at least I hope it isn't the reason.
Albi - you love your family because they tucked you in at night, and read you stories, and did countless acts of love for you. (Yes I am coming back to love vs pride deliberately i will come to pride at the end)
You should love your country because of the people who have helped you throughout your life and did countless good deeds for you and your family. These people are teachers, nurses, soccer coaches, the neighbourhood community police men who visits schools, they are your community. And your community extends to your country.
Beyond that, you are similar to me Albi. Beyond the fact we went to the same school - our value systems (ignoring generational issues) will be similar. Our opinions are more likely to be the same than two people from different countries. You are connected to all New Zealanders through many commonalities and when a New Zealander succeeds in anything that is an affirmation for our way of life and our values. And that feeling of warmth is called pride.
That was always going to be the problem with this conversation. The topic (why you should or should not have pride in your country) is tough to answer quickly.I'm not going to spend half an hour writing a post
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Indeed. Not to mention, the concept of love is difficult to describe in words and impossible to argue objectively.That was always going to be the problem with this conversation. The topic (why you should or should not have pride in your country) is tough to answer quickly.
Let me not to the marriage of true mindsIndeed. Not to mention, the concept of love is difficult to describe in words and impossible to argue objectively.