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Not true. Would you give up your right to call me hypocritical on the same basis? Thought not. Who would?!? I wouldn't!And if you're not perfect you have no right saying I'm hypocritical.
Just as I suspected - the problem is communication, not attitude.Fact is, no-one is perfect and if you had to be perfect to criticise someone for something then no-one would ever get any criticism.
If I come across as not giving a damn about others' views there's precisely nothing I can do about it. Fact is, I do, and without others' views I wouldn't have had any of mine made-up. If I didn't give a damn about others' views I wouldn't even bother posting on forums or talking to anyone about cricket, I'd just write my own column and read it myself and tell myself that I was right and no-one else could possibly know anything.
But given that I can never watch every match, nor watch every match as closely as someone else, I have to listen to others who sometimes know stuff I don't. And when they do, I'm invariably perfectly willing to bow to their superior knowledge.
As for appearing not to give a damn about others' views and not being able to do anything about it, that's a patent falsehood. There are plenty of ways one can adjust their methods of communication in order to get their points across without appearing to disregard the views of others. Plenty.
Take my job (PLEASE!! Sorry, bad joke....); I'm a university-educated crime analyst so already the Police officers I work with are suspicious of me. Now, I could go into a briefing and tell them 'how it is' in my edumacated, academic-speak (which would not diminish the correctness of what I had to say) or I could try to understand where they're coming from so I can communicate on their levels (not higher or lower, just different). To do that, I have to adjust the way I communicate or I simply won't be listened to (which is far worse than saying things which are wrong or debateable). Yes what you say might be strictly correct or incorrect but not adjusting for your audience can be fatal for your side of the debate. That's all I'm saying. Communication is extremely important; if you can't communicate your views to the intended recipient, no matter how right you are, your views mean less than they should.