Blocky
Banned
The thing is though, this forum is never docile. There are just different "villains" of the day and the more you post here, the more familiar people get with your posting style. As an outsider looking in, of course you're going to be pissed off at "Blocky" when it seems every thread he's in turns into an argument, you're probably not going to note that "Blocky" has a strong personality type which offended other people in other threads who bring their personal **** in to the new thread and attempt to attack/bait and do it with groups, then as an impartial observer, you see that go down without context or history of when I first started posting, I didn't mind dishing out insults to people because I believed it was banter and people weren't a bunch of skirt wearing nancies. I think you'll see my style now isn't about outright "You're a ****ing idiot" like it used to be, although I still reserve the right to point out if I think a point of view is stupid.Frankly, this argument has a flipside too. If a legion of previously docile posters who never got into fights all suddenly get into fights with one poster, it could indicate that the one poster is getting on their nerves. This, in the end, is a discussion forum, not a debate forum, and we do expect a certain level of geniality and graciousness during discussions, particularly in tour threads, in order to maintain forum atmosphere. My ideal tour thread - and I'd say most others would agree with me - is something approaching a pub-like atmosphere, where good cricket discussions are had and not everyone has to agree, but stupid ****fights don't start because one poster took offence to this poster's argument or this poster was too aggressive or whatever.
This is not to say you can't call ****ty posts ****ty -- hell, I do that myself a lot -- but the percentage of ****ty posts is actually pretty small in my experience, and "this person disagrees with me" is in no way tantamount to the post being ****, or the person being stupid, or whatever. It kills forum atmosphere when people do that, though it's very difficult to infract.
Something to ponder.
ha. I thought it was Dan. See, the idea that "an argument that you alone were interested in" doesn't ring true, because I don't respond to myself. I only really respond to others, a lot of the "heated discussions" we end up having is because I don't have the type of personality where I'll let someone question my point of view without a response. And my version of response is to firmly validate my opinion by pointing out why I think things and bringing past events into account - i,e if I make a statement about Wagner, I will revert back to how many people absolutely discredited him and said he had no business in the side. The same with Guptill. Those are pertinent to the actual match situation, as is the current Sodhi discussion because ultimately NZ are going into matches with a guy who cannot hope to contribute with his "strongest" skill suite, "but it's a broken record" - my answer to that is he keeps getting selected.That was me, ftr. The problem there was less disagreement, the problem there was that the atmosphere of the tour thread had been completely destroyed by what I saw as an utterly pointless argument that you had started and you alone seemed interested in. Many people have suggested temporary blocking the offending poster from the thread in question to deal with the situation, that was the nearest thing we have.
Considering that's cricket discussion, that goes back to my earlier point. I really don't give a crap what Howsie thinks of Neil Wagner because I know he doesn't have a clue about the situation, so I don't bother responding to him on Neil Wagner rants. Even though he tries his best to start **** when I say "Wagner won't do as well until he sorts his technical issues out" - apparently then I'm "making excuses" rather than "discussing cricket" - people are too personally attached to these players in my view.