I just feel so uncomfortable with the Martin Crowe articles.
I know he's someone for whom life=cricket, so I guess it makes a little sense, but the continual emotional investment in a game, a sport, and the way it's written...
I dunno.
It just feels weird.
Is he ok putting that stuff out there in public like that?
Do his wife and kids read that?
How are Ross and Martin supposed to feel about all this?
Hard to explain, it just doesn't sit well with me.
I think you are missing the point.
Cricket isn't just a hobby or a passion for Crowe, it has literally been his
life. It was his day job, and the majority of his adult life has been associated with cricket. If he describes his relationship with Ross and Martin as being akin to father and son, who are we to judge? We don't know, we have seen the support throughout the career and the acknowledgement from both sides and it certainly isn't hard to imagine a close relationship cannot develop in that situation.
If he wants to put his heart out there into public then he can. He is a writer now, a writer with a terminal illness, he wants to inspire, he wants to connect and he wants to define exactly what has made him who he is. I'm personally an extremely private person when it comes to anything I feel guarded about, but my passion and love for the game is not an area that I regard as being something I need to keep to myself.
I suspect that a lot of Kiwi fans are nodding their heads along with Crowe's words, feeling the pride and passion that he does for the New Zealand cricket team.
And I personally think if you have a problem with what he is saying and the way he is saying it then the problem is with you. I don't mean to offend there, but I suspect there are a lot of others out there who understand where Crowe is coming from and I believe Crowe's words are for us.