Can you not see that by saying that you'd like New Zealand to lose at anything might make other Kiwis (whether nationalistic or not) upset? I don't hate the Ockers, I don't even necessarily want them to lose at anything in particular, but to want a country other than yours to win something, well that's just crazy! I can't imagine there are many Aussies out there who hope that Australia would lose!! Its one thing to wish for a tight, highly contested game (in which your team eventually prevails) but a completely different thing to actively want your team to lose. Can you not even appreciate how guys who've grown up following NZ through the many LOWS might actually want to see NZ win when they're at a HIGH for once? This is why (I presume) Fiery calls your attitude "******** on the place and its sports teams"
TBH, I disagree with a lot of that. I am like Perm in one way (and only one, I imagine) in that I'm more bothered about the general welfare of cricket than unreserved success for my team. If England have to lose a bit to get some good cricket, so be it. Of course, whenever England play I want them to win, or at least certainly not to lose (well, in Test-matches, at least; in ODIs it's more about building a team for a WC and as I've said many times I couldn't care less how we fare in Twenty20 Ints, in fact if anything I'd prefer we lose so as it might curb the enthusiasm to play the format internationally).
And yes, that attitude has wound-up the more partisan England spectators at the various forums I've frequented. Nonetheless, I know for a fact that there are indeed Australians (Kyle [Mister Wright] for one) who are of a similar mindset. Not identical, but similar. And those from other countries, too, of course. Such people are evident on these forums: Rob Cribb (Prince EWS), myself, tec (tooextracool if you don't know that abbreviation, and he hasn't been around much since you joined so I'd forgive that), Perm, and one or two others.
And while I don't remember a time when England lost pretty much anything and everything (1986-1989) I do remember one (1992-1997) when we didn't win that much. So that factor has no influence.