Flem274*
123/5
I think it's also important to note Hurricane that any of us CWers would be seeing jail time in his place. I was pretty surprised he was found not guilty, going by the evidence and discussion with someone present at the house.Unacceptable behaviour, particularly in role models, doesn't simply begin at a conviction for rape. He was found not guilty of that, fine.
However, what he admitted to in court does not to my mind reach appropriate standards of behaviour in any way. In his own words:
"When asked about the complainant's evidence that she said "no" "dozens of times", he said it was "a lie". "I tried [having ***] twice, like she might have said 'no, no' a few times but it wasn't dozens of times."
How many nos are required?
And as a result, NZC's position of not making any statement at all about his behaviour is not a neutral approach. It is tantamount to saying that such behaviour is acceptable as it hasn't been broached.
I think he got lucky. He's entitled to everything a not guilty person is and almost everyone is worth a redemption arc, but I think NZC and he should have made some restorative actions.