I honestly can't recall ever coming into a conversation about something on CW which dealt with a single incident but OBVIOUSLY related to (a) a broader issue which is worth discussing, and (b) a much broader example of the exact same issue relating to the very people in question, only to be told that these related issues were in fact unrelated, irrelevant, somehow not appropriate for or worthy of discussion or that it was weird or suspicious of me to bring them up.
FWIW I have heard of feminism, I spend way too much time as it is reading about gender-related issues and I do not need any of the great feminist philosophers of CW to explain my pathologies to me or inform me of the agendas that I don't even know I have. I just want to have a rational discussion about the matter at hand and the related issues and themes and questions that spring from that matter. I think it's very unfortunate that can't or won't happen for whatever reason.
holy mother of god.
let me spell this out very very very
very plainly.
you asked me, completely out of nowhere, why i thought mm was hired. i said (amongst other things), that i didn't especially care, because it did not provide any mitigating circumstances in the incident i was interested in discussing.
you went and called into question my moral integrity as a result, but ok, i was being overly concise. i explained that i still didn't care because to discuss why mel was employed
in the context of gayle's actions would be whataboutery, trying to justify one action by pointing to another, larger wrong, and that the two issues had no relation outside of broader discussions of how women are treated by media/sport,
which i said i don't have any interest in discussing right now. which is not to say it's not a worthwhile, valid and important discussion to have,
just not one i was interested in having.
you then go off on some frankly unhinged rant, accusing me of having some hidden agenda and tone-policing and bringing up tumblr (what?), when
you were the one who tried to drag
me into this conversation in the first place, a conversation i had indicated at every opportunity i was
not interested in having right now.
so. let me say this one more time and hopefully it will actually get through whatever paranoid lens you currently have on which makes you see hostile agendas in everything i post for some reason:
yes, the way women are treated within sport and within society at large is a serious and broad issue, one that deserves serious attention in its own right.
yes, you have made worthwhile and reasonable points in that regard.
no, i am not interested in that discussion right now, that is way too vast a subject for me to tackle appropriately at this absurd hour of the night/morning.
seriously.